NUR FIRDAUS Imanin 'Ya By Anne-Aurora

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After 3hours..



11:00 am dot Nur firdaus suka fito daga cikin chemistry laboratory inda suka gudanar da wasu practical dinsu na water quality titrations, daga farar labcoat dinta sai dan jakarta ta fito tabi jerin sauran dalibai masu ficewa ajin batare da takula kowa ba ta dauke kanta cikin jan aji tana takunta me sanyi rataye da matsakaiciyar jakarta wanda koda bata dago kanta sama ba kai kasan nur firdaus haroun kyayakwar gaske ne





tafiya takeyi acikin sanyin nutsuwar datafi Kama da nutsatsyr kasaita tare da kuma fallasashen miskilanci ayanayinta musamman yadda take soo calm hakanan idanuwanta ke kallon gabanta duk yadda takillace jikinta da isashen uniform bai hana wnn hadadden tsarin surar jikintan daukan hankalin mutane ba wanda shiyasa duk Wani dalibi data hadu dashi a hanya yake hadiye Mata yawu musamman wainda sukasan matsayinta a makarantar...



... malamai dayawa ma gani suke ai tafi karfinsu sabod tsabr kyanta, ilimi, da kuma jarumtarta a aji tareda sanin Wanda suke soyayya dashi wato Kyakkwan matashin nan ADNAN SHEHURI wanda kowa yasan dan gatan iyayensane da suke matsayin manyan yan siyasan a kasa snn Adnan shehuri baida wata budurwan dayake mutuwar kauna a rayuwarsa face Nur fiddaus haroun.





tun da suka fito a lab din Taku take cikin kasala da damuwa harta kai gaban Babban 2 storey building dake dauke da offisoshin manyan malamai,.



Hasken ranar da ya soma ketowa ya dallare mata ido, ta sanya fararen tafin hannunta ta kare saman idanunta a daidai lokacin da mai gadi awajen ya karaso gare ta.



tambayarta yke inda zataje duba da ganinta ka ga wacce take cikin rudanin xuci, ajiyan zuciya ta sauke kafin ta tsaida idonta a kan wani takarda snn ta nuna mishi adireshin inda zai kai ta wanda ke rubuce cikin paper wadda ta fiddo daga jakarta danyau batajin zata iyayin wani surutu sosai..



Yana kammala karantawa ya gyada mata kai alaman yasan wajen.



a sannu a hankali tabishi sukayi kan 2nd floor na building din tanamai karewa kyawawan Hall ways dake ta wajen kallo wanda akalla shiyafi dau™
e mata hankalinta daga yin tunanin komi dake damun xuciyarta iyanxu.



Can security ya tsaya tare da nuna mata wata office dake daura da gabanta. wani kasallen ajiyar zuciya tayi, ta masa godiya snn ya juya ya tafi. Sannu a hankali ta karasa kofar office din dake dauke da tag din GUIDANCE AND COUNCELLNG UNIT ajiki ta bubbuga kofar cikin mintuna kadan akazo aka bude mata game da mata izini ixuwa ciki.



Babban office ne sosai dake dauke da furnitures masu daukar hankali,kai kana ganin office din kasan naira ta xauna a makrntar. akaro na biyu ta sauke ajiyan zuciya ta ciki cos She cudnt shake off the feeling of unease dake damun zuciyarta a lkcin. cikin girmamawa da ladabi tay gaisuwa wanda iyaka Sanyin murmushin sectaryar dataci karo dashi a office din shi ya sata jin dama dama.



atakaice Matar tace "ID card" Nur firdaus ta fito da student ID card dinta ta nuna mata.."kallo daya matar tay ma ID card din snn tace ga waje nan zauna Dr Ibrahim will be with u shortly. Tun bata amsa ba matar ta mi™
e tsaye ta doshi hanyar waje.



Nodding kanta tay ahnkli Ayayinda ta taho a nitse walking majestically like a model cos she have the perfect small waist and big round butts, bazakace shekarunta sha bakwai bane, she is curvy in a special way kamar ita ta kera shape din jikinta dakanta wanda shi baiyi yawa snn bazakace dashi yakasa a idanunka ba. tana da matsakaicin tsawo kuma ita ba doguwa sosai bace ba kuma ba wada ba,tana tsaka tsakiyar hakan.



Haka ma fatar jikinta, Baza ace dashi dau ba amma farace, kalar da ake ce dasu flawless brazillian white. Manyan Idanunta da shape din dogon hancinta dana bakinta tsaf ya dace da doguwar fuskar da Allah ya bata mai kyaun fasali da tsari, sannan tana da yelwan suman kai masha Allah Nur fidaus haroun tacika mace abar kallo takoina dan tana debin kama da jennifer winget a fixge.





Ahankli ta zauna akan chair tana mai cewa sectaryiyar "Thank you". Ayayinda tazuba mata ido harta rufe kofar tabarta anan zaune.



jim kadan wajen ya dau wani shiru dan Duk da zuciyarta acike yake da rudanin abunda zata tarar her mind is busy racing with possbilities. "What could dis be about? Itade tasan Duk makarantar nan ansanta ita yarinyace nitsayya me kuma tarbiyan addini sosai she alwys striving to be excellent in Behaviours gudun kar duniya tadada zargin yawan rashin kulawar mahaifyarsu dasuka taso aciki.



sede Daga zarar dalibi yaji tsammaci daga G/C unit hanklinsa ke tashi dan yasan dolene wata matsala ce data shafi personal rayuwarsa data taso...





Nannuaryar ajiyar zuciyane ya kufce mata yayinda taji an sake bude kofar dan tabbas saida taji gabanta ya kara fadi..



tana juyawa kadan suka hade ido da Dr ibrahim me kimanin shekaru 52, a renownd consultant of psychology and social sciences, takaitaccen kallo yabita dashi, tay saurin sauke nata idon kasa bayan amsa nitsyar sallamarsa batace komi ba harya zauna akan kujerarsa dake kallon nata...



Yana zama ya daga wata paper ya kalla, Fuskansa ba yabo babu fallasa yace "Welcome to G/C unit NUR fiddaus.



Muryanta kasa kasa cikin sanyi da dar dar tace 'thank you sir' you have asked to see me.



Kai tsaye yace yes.

ina fatan kina kan shirin gasarku all our hope is on u.



ahankli tay murmushi tace "in sha Allah!



nan ya bude wata file dake gabansa yadago ya dubeta cikin sauke ajiyan zuciya snn yace "malama nur fidaus makaranta tay iyakan bakin kokarinta dan taga ansamu kadan daga cikin lokcin mahaifyarki anan offishin amma bamu ci sa'an hakan ba...every call is excuse upon excuses harma yakaiga an dena daga wayarmu Shiyasa mukaga gara a kiraki a matsayinki na big sister atleast lets start from somwhere..



ido ta zuba masa batace komi ba yadan ja nunfashi snn yadora da cewa "so.. magana nake son nayi dake akan kanwarki "Leila haroun".. regarding her behaviors and perfomance a makarntar nan.



Nur ta dago kanta ahankli jin gabanta yay mugun tsinkewa, cikin ranta ta furta innalillahi tare da lumshe idonta mentally arantan tana cewa ko me leilan tay a wann karon oho.....

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Cikin kirkiran murmushi tay gyaran murya snn tace inajinka please go ahead sir..



Gyaran muryan shima yay snn ya fara mata nasiha masu shiga jiki duba da makarntar tana kkri bisa dora dalibanta akan tarbiyarn islama. Snn itakanta nur fidaus tana daya daga cikin Daliban da ake alfahari dasu wajen dabbaka hidimar addini da nuna dabia na kwarai da kame kansu a matsayin su na ´
ayan musulmai.



Saidai izuwa yanxu halayyar yar uwarta leila haroun sosai ya fara damun malamai da kuma class advisers na Ajinsu da suke yawan kawo korafin yadda bata son karatu kwata kwata ynxu, bata kuma gaida maison karatu. Babban burinta shine, tazo aji ta toshe kunnuwanta da wakokin Mawaka irinsu M sherif na soyayya kala kala haka zata nitsu tanajinsu har atashi.





Dr ibrahim Ya kalle nur da fuskan damuwa tare da cewa.."musan yar uwarki leila tana da ilimi sosai amma wann karon your sisters grades are slipping and her behvr have bcome withdrawn kamar ma batason tay karatu ne gabaki daya.. tun farin session din nan muka fahimci haka shinko akwai wata personal matsala ce dayake damunta ata gida?? Sabida anan we r really trying our best akan case dinta but we found nothing related to academics default..



nur dake wasa da yatsun hannunta nervously izuwa yanxu duk sai taji takasa tattara komi dagacikin nitsuwarta har nadan wani lkci dan atake kwakwalrta ya shiga hayayyako mata manyan dalilin dayake neman jefa nitsuwar yar uwarta da kuma rayuwarsu gabaki daya cikin garari, wanda Ba wani abu bane face Halin ko in kula da dumbin bibiyar hayatal duniya da uwarsu ta dora a rayuwarta wanda bataji bata gani bata daraja komi sai aikinta da rayuwar siyasanta.



kowacce haifaffen ´
a mace tana alfahari da y'ay'anta data haifa amma awajen nasu uwar tamkar wahala da nauyi Haihuwarsu ya zame mata wanda take saukeshi da kyar, gabaki daya rayuwar mum dinsu revolves around her endlesss meetings, social rallies and big big political events which have taken toll in thier family life tun suna yara kanana.



Dan karda shirun data masa yay yawa yasata dago kanta da karamin murmushi tanamai cewa



Sir i have to get back to u on this amma ina son na sani What can i do to help my sister dan maman mu has been really really busy with her campaigns gaskiya bana tsammanin zata taba samun lkcin zuwa nan.



jin ta karashe maganan muryanta na nemn yy rawa Cikin katseta ahnkli yace mahaifinku kuma ya rasu ko?



Wani abu me nauyi ta dan hadiya aranta kafin Nan tace Eh.. jiki a sanyaye takuma cewa "babanmu Ya jima da rasuwa.



batare da ya kalleta ba yy ajiyan zuciya snn yace "Mun bincika files dinku ko zamu ga contacts ko adress na wani guidance amma babu, "is ur mum the only one taking care of u both, i mean babu uncles ko qurdians..



kallonshi take ayayin da taji kamar nunfashinta ya rike ta ciki Bata iya amsawa bama ta girgiza masa kai tanakan kirkiran murmushi me nauyi ayayinda ta hau tuna yadda mahaifyarsu ta datse duk wata alakarsu da yan uwan ubansu da kuma sauran danginsu sabida harkan siyasanta wanda abune wanda haryau basu fahinta ba, Ahnkl snn tace no sir, ita dayace kawai.





Cike da tausayawa a kwayar idanunsa yace Toh shikenan bakomi you can start by being der for ur sister dan gaskiya rayuwarta yana bukatar kulawan familynta sosai. Ke matsayinki na babban Ki jawota ajikinki snn kiji menene asalin damuwarta, if she feels scared of something offer her a word of encouragement..



Gyada kanta tay ahnkli snn tace Nagode Sir zan iya bakin kokkri na akai in sha Allah..





Rufe file din yay bayan yay dan wasu rubuce rubuce tana kallonshi batace komi ba can snn yace toh shikenan you can go for ur class.



Godiya ta kara masa ta mike tsaye har takai bakin kofa Snn taji ya ambace sunanta..



Juyowa tay suka hade ido cikin sanyin murya ya dubeta ganin she is also too young for an emotional budern. tausayinta yaji aransa yace "nur fidaus yana da muhimmanci duk yadda za'ayi ku samu tattaunawa da mahaifyarku, i dont knw how, but try.. cos it may be the root cause of these issures da yar uwarki take facing kuma yadda nasanta last session tana da kkri sosai ba haka take ba. Work on ur self too mss haroun. Karku sake ku dorawa ranku nauyin abunda yafi karfinku mmmm?



Ji tay zuciyarta ya kara karyewa da kallon tausayawar dayay mata kawai ta gyada masa kai tana murmushi daga nan batace komi ba harta fita waje..





tunda ta rufe kofar ofis din tafiya take gabanta na faduwa jin abubuwa masu dumbin yawa na dawowa cikin brain dinta dan duk sanda ta tuna nisan tazarar fahintar juna dake tsakaninta da mahaifyarsu sai taji kamar ta zube awajen ta rushe da kuka mei tsuma. Dan bazata iya tuna sau nawa take kkri wajen kai korafin neman kulawarta akansu ba, snn bazata iya tuna sau nawa take gaya mata illar da shikansa rashin kulawartan yakeyi acikin rayuwarsu ba.





Mahaifyarsu Hajiya Haseena Sharifudeen irin mata yan bokon nan ne da suke da strong willed for social life and high profile political ambitions ta rike matsayi kala kala dake da alaka da siyasan kasa itadin babban yar gwagwarmayace sananniya kuma jajirtacciya.



Yanxu haka itace Party chairperson and social justice activist na rulling party dake ci wanda Lokacin kanta ma bata dashi bare kuma na yaranta data haifa. dacan da mahaifinsu alhaj Haroun ciroma ke raye basu ma santa sosai ba dan shike musu komi na ryuwarsu hatta wanka abinci, kulawa da su in suna ciwo hatta wanke kashi, baban su civil servant ne kuma dan kasuwane but he died while they she is just little itada laila wanda Bayan mutuwarsa ne suka fara wata rayuwa mai tamkar da na marayu.



Gadai uwarsu araye ga kuma kudin tana nemosu amma komi su suka koyi yima makansu dakansu cos they hardly catch her attention, yau meeting acan kasar gobe rally acan garin ko social events, wanda ko tadawo seidei ta nemi samun hutu da sabon mijinta _uncle Sadaat_ matashi me jini ajika data aura bayan rasuwar mahaifinsu, bayanshi sam bata sauraran komi daya shafe rayuwarsu da karatunsu insunyi me kyau oho inbasuyi ba oho itade zata basu kudi kowanawa ne ayi komi







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Madaidaicin dakin karatun mai dauke da dalibai 46 yayi shiru bakajin motsin komai sai na takardu, sai kuma very audible voice din malamin da yake gabatar da karatu ga dalibai masu karantar ilimin litereture a makarantar ICIE alnoor academy dake abuja. Darasi ne suke yi akan "attachment theories"

..Stories that reflect complexities and rubuta sunayen manyan littafai kala kala da suke zuba magana ta hikima da fasaha akan family reltionship complexities da attachment theory din akan Allo..



inda malamin yake yi musu bayani dalla dalla game da Nazari da suka shafi alaqa ta jini dana yan uwantaka..



Saboda kasancewa daliban sunzo ne daga yaruka da kuma gidaje mabanbanta, wannan yasa malamin yake daukan misalin daya bayan daya yake musu bitar banbancin tsarukan complexieties da ake samu da niyyar in sun gama sai su hadu suyi comparing aga wadanne ne sukafi cin karo da juna snn sukafi kyau kuma wadanne chanji ya kamata a samar.



A yau ne kuma malamin yashigo yankin arewa wanda yafara ne daga midle belt as some wll call it north central kafin ashiga core north din..



Malamin yafara da Abuja dan da alama yawancin daliban nasa mazauna abujan ne wanda iyayensu basu da lkcin kansu sosai ma bare nasu, so they reasonate with him deeply suna fahimtar duk wani misalai dayake bayarwa sosai ajin yau ya dau shiru ..



A nutse ya fara karanto wa daliban existing litereture review akan yadda alakar iyaye dana yaransu take a arewa tare da karanto wasu chapter da labari acikin littafan dake gabansa .





Wajen wasu iyaye yaro tamkar kwai yake ana kaffa kaffa da rayuwarsa tun daga ranar da aka haifesa har ya mutu, amma wajen wasu iyayen yaro tamkar kashin kifi a wuyarsu ne ko kuma ince wani bbn cikas ga rayuwarsu.





malamin ya furta abubuwa dayawa wanda suka dada tadawa nur firdaus hanklinta sosai dan tun da aka fara ajin alakarsu da tasu mahaifiyar kawai take tunawa..



cikin zuba tagumi ta shiga nazari shin Tayaya ma mutum zai kawo wani fragile halitta duniya Bayan yasan Allah ya damka masa shi a matsayin amana ne snn yazo yanuna cewa baisan da matsaln rayuwar halittar ba..?....."Wai Shin lefin iyayen ne ko lefin yanayin rayuwar da muka tsinci kanmu aciki?..



Cikin nazarinta taji malamin yace nazarin mu na biyu akan iyaye shine masana sunyi ™
iyasi sunce.. tabbass

..."Dan adam bazai taSa fahimtar yawa da zafin gwagwamyar iyayensa aynxu ba hala har sai ya kai shekaru Ar'bain..." Lkcin ne kaima zaka fahimce cewa suma mutane ne kamarka with alot of fears, anxieties, trauma and dreams to be fullfiled.



Dan haka wayene zai gaya mana Kwararan dalilai dayasaka ake samun family trauma and complexities.



Dalibi na farko daga seat din gaba shine ya fara daga hannu malamin ya juyo kanshi...



yace sir"..kasancewar mutum uba ko uwa abune wanda akwai matsanancin gajiya, da rashin samun cikakken hutu ajiki, sabida daga zaràr iyaye sun samu ciki daga ranar za'a fara shiri da hidima akan abunda za'a haifa har ranar da ya fito duniya ahakan ma za'a cigaba ne da kulawa dashi harsai illa masha'a..



Wacce take gefensa ta dago tace sir snn iyayen sukansu might be suffering frm past family and rlship traumas and other unresolved chilhood insecurities or abuse..



cike da gamsuwa da jin dadin amsoshinsu malamin yace yes yes very good. Anyone else?



Wata yarinya wacce take gefe daga can baya tace akwai loss of personal identity sir. Dan Mutum daga ya amsa sunansa na baban wace ko maman wace toh iya wann title din zai iya danne duk wata tittle, passion, goals, da kuma personal intrest dinsa da yake dashi akan personal rayuwarsu.



gayen dake gefenta bayarbe ne fari kyakkwa dashi wanda alama yana mugun ji dakansa kai tsaye yace "Desire for autonomy sir. I think our Parent need some independence and self directed life. Producing children is like self sabotage.. ni personally bazan ma haifi kowa ba.



Dede nan kowa ya juya ya kallesa da mamaki ayayinda shikuma ya hade ransa yana shan qamshi...



Malamin yay murmushi yace "reason?



Tsaye yaron ya mike boldy snn yace "sir, parenting is like a poison slowly killng us duba da sha'anin parenting din yana zuwa ne da wasu irin overwhelming duties discpline, and even education....ann yay dogon bayaninsa.



Lokaci guda malamin ya hau gyada kai looking quiet impressed da irin amsoshin da suke bayarwa tareda yin kwafa akan fuskokin mutane irinsu Nur firdaus da Abun bei zo dede da raayinsu ba.



yace very good points so far "abrar "salma, "Aliya and Abdul".. bravo, naji dadin ra'ayoyinku akan hakan. it seems like you all understood the concept of family complexities and unmanageble parenting responsiblities.. now Lets see if we can justify it. Shin hakan da kuka fadi deidei ne ko akwai gyara...who is ready to oppose the motions



nan take Abdul din ya sake daga hannunsa da alaman bai gama ba



yace sir being a parent Its like obeying a law of nature. Just like marriage, Parenting is like legal form of slavery. Kamar kaci abinci ne kayi amai and Then u spend the rest of yr life working for it to be come as perfect and nice as the food you eat.. masana dayawa a fannin psychology sunyi nazari akan haka. literally you dont owe yr child anything. "like, how are you working all ur ass off just to save for a child kamar danshi kazo duniya? dont we all have a purpose? is producing children our only purpose? this Doesnt even make sense...i will like to point out that wnn mindset din shine ya kawo rashin cigaba da talauci a arewa....and



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